Travelling Back ..!

Its been long time i was with family. and specially in some function.

People always blame me for staying away from the family function, i too agree to it becz its a fact i don't really make an effort to be part of any family events. But i did some serious efforts this time becz its not just a family function... its special event for me too..!!

It was My cousin sister Deepti's wedding. We were never behaved as brother and sister the relation was more of friendship and always a laughter. I don't even remember when was the last time we spoke seriously. i don't even remember our serious fight.

I got to know she got her life partner and perfect match from mom ... Mom called me on my mobile i was in office and said deepu is getting married and my reply was Maa are you serious?? she didn't tell me ? and mom replied I m serious she is getting engaged soon you take few leaves and attend the function... and ya girls are shy you expect her to call and tell ??!! its not gonna happen. and call ended. the same weekend i traveled back home and Deepu was also thr at her place i went and  loud hooter saying Deepyaaa..!! and she started smiling ahahaha!! a hug of affection... sentiments and ya i said Congo Dummii..!! she was not able to control her blush :) :)she said you better be thr at the function and all.. i said i will.

But as usual I was not able to attend. She got pissed off and too hipped. But ya i was really struck. I explained her why i missed the function she said i understand. Your career is equally important But Dare you miss my Wedding i said i wont Dummii :) :)

I changed my Job and Joined my new office and it was fun all around i was in touch with her and few of her friends ya ya pinkya :D i spoke to deepu twice and she was happy ! every one back home were busy in some or the other preparation. Deepu said don't worry no one will irritate you by asking stupid Questions please come and I said yes i will..!! 

Here comes the time and the trouble too i started to travel frequently out of Bangalore i was skeptical about my presence at her wedding and i told her she got angry and didn't even responded to my Whats aap message and did a plan. tried to finish all my work two days before mean while i made an effort to know things happening in home and also with deepu. 

Yes i made it i reached the place two days before and the only person other than my mom and dad who new about my arrival was the Kid Pinkyaa..!!hahha she is deepu's friend.!

i made my appearance  at her mehendi and there comes the voice Raji Akka..!! chinyaaaooo!! and my uncle good u came and ya my Maami too perfect timing !!

i climbed the stares to c the Bride she was busy with her mehendi but pinkyaa said yeeahhhh..!!

slowly the place got crowded and her friends stated to flow in and few i knew and thr come another Brat :P Madhuri girl with lots of energy and always ready to do any thing dance ..song  or make people dance..!! the party has began and my camera has already started to capture some special moments and i was enjoying.. lots of jokes were cracked i troubled Madhuri and Pinky a lot.

Then every one started to dance, but i was standing back enjoying the moments with smile like always, i stand out when it comes to dance or singing song.  Madhuri made an effort to pull me but i stood away.. she made many more efforts to drag me on dance floor at last i just went and was thr for few minutes i came back. some elderly person said you don't dance ?? i said NO what if your wife starts to dance and she drags u on floor for dance, i said i think thr is time to get on floor and ya i don't think she won't drag me becz she will be knowing my comfort zone. In-return to my long argument what if she wann dance?? i said.. i will be happiest person to see her dancing more than any one !! i wont interrupt !

and i saw every one got drained and started to play games and i also joined them, had lot of fun.

On the day of deepus marriage we had fun, teased her a lot when she was posing with her husband, thr comes a time of sentiments and departures ..!! But still we made a point to make her smile i give credit to deepu's friends and my line Areee why are you crying i will be thr in Bangalore i got bus at 8.30pm, Tomorrow early morning i will trouble you and she smiled...!! we all together said tata to her and moved away ..!!

I am travelling back to Bangalore with lots of memories and happy moments for lifetime .. looking out from my bus at sky ... its a cold wind and cloudy sky But the moon making it little more artistic by adding light and stars its perfect time to close my eyes with smile and happiness.

lets end the post my style with some lines :

Whenever Life Made Me serious, 

I Tried to Smile and you said chill bro..!

Whenever people made me angry,

you said ignore them bro.

whenever i played a prank,

your loud laughter made it successful. 

Today i made an effort to make u smile, 

and you replied with tears.

today made a joke of you. 

you replied with silence. 

I made an effort to say take care with smiley bye,

and you Looked at me from the moving bus window with tears in your eyes..!!

that gesture of your told me you are grown up now and you have became women. 

you are no more that notaries small sister anymore :)

With lost of blessing and wishes i said bye to my chubbi sister ..!!

   

Morayaaa ..!!

This is something very different than what I always write, it’s about emotions, attachments and culture towards one city.

Belgaum … my Janam Bhumi. 

This city is always special for me in all the terms , it may be my school life or college life , but what’s so special about today ..!!??

Its Ganesh chaturthi ..!!

The day when you see true color of belgaum, for this day..We belgaum people work day and night, and we always pray that the rest of 11 days when our Bappa(Lord Ganesh ) is there with us in our nearest pendaal goes smooth ..!!

My friends in Bangalore often ask question, what is so special about this festival in your place.  

why do you miss so much ??

I always answer them with smile … to understand that special feeling please do visit Belgaum and feel it.

Then they say we will but explain now.!!

Here it goes …!!

People wait for this day praying to come soon because, this is the festival when our house will be full of kids , relatives and also the elderly people , It’s the  time to teach our culture to kids who stay  out of Belgaum , many times it’s like elderly person will take kids for shopping n ladies of the house will be busy in preparing sweets .. Young generation of the house will be busy in decoration work ,cleaning , painting and also inviting their friends and helping ladies for different work .

Kids will enjoy this time because the grand parents will take them out for walk in city, telling different stories about the Lord Ganesh, and kids always ask 100 questions those can be answered only by grand parents  :) :)

When it comes to sarvajanika Ganesh utsava ..!!

Youth plays important role, they make groups among them and they go all over the city and bring all the things that are needed .  for this work they tell lies , bunk college , school, they get scolding’s for not completing home work but they want to be part of this ganpati festival work , this is so special  they will give all possible reasons n run way and be part of this .

If the kid is not in house at evening time the only place u find them is nearest pendal , that kind of magic or attraction towards the bappa will be their .

After all this mantap , decoration and unique Idle of ganesha ..!!  One thing which makes every person proud and part of this festival is the jhaanja patak ( Band) ..!!   In every colony or galli group that starts practicing the Band months early and people just help those youth with everything right from the snacks till the practice place..!! And they want it to be the best when it is compared to other colony.!!

People feel the heat, the beat, the liveliness, when the music hits them.

Youth of Belgaum says:

It’s the sound of “jhaanja patak “(band) that makes my feat move magically,

It’s an electric wave that flows like 100000 volt in my body..

It’s the bass of dhol  , makes change that brings to everyone who is witnessing the event .

It’s the silence of sambhala , which indirectly tells you to change your steps of dance .

It’s a sound of taala  which makes  a magic and you join your hands for a different step ,

and it also has a power to make a mob stand still in one place for more than hour ..!!

its drags u out of your house ,

sometimes it just goes in a flow which makes your eyes full of tears and you find yourself standing in front of Bappa (Lord Ganesh ) with folded hands .!! Moray is a sound which brings everyone together.

My friend says: wow ..!! I want to visit your city …!

 My answer was its your city too, you heard the story and you felt it, so it’s your city now..!!  

They said: thanks yaar ..!!

Whatever I wrote today about Belgaum and Ganesh festival is like 1% of reality..!!

There are many more things about it for that visit it and fell it .

As usual I want to close the post with few lines:

When I sit alone in Bangalore  and close my eyes, Belgaum  shows its different color.

This time you showed me most colourful days from my past,

Bappa is always special for me and many people of Belgaum.

When i travel in my memories of Belgaum , Belgaum takes me to every mantap in the city, I can hear that background music of that place.

That Aarti of Bappa which makes every individual to stand in front of him like hypnotised,

That sound of jhanja patak which creates magic in the air and makes you dance with beat,

That 10 feet idle of your, with all new kind of decorations and new look of yours says " I’m nothing in front of you".

Bappa I’m missing you like a kid who lost his parent in a crowed  ..!!

One word to sum it up all is “Mooooooraayaa …!!“

PS: images are copied from Google 

Living back in memories ..!!

To those people who wann live thr Past ..!!

We always demand the past time or the chance to live once again , we always remember the people in our lonely life , past mistakes or the memories conquer our mind . and  that mode so different it cannot be said it should be felt , its a sacred feeling for me . it makes every one think about many things happened.

 we miss those loved once and the dearest one with whom once we shared every secret but they r not thr in our life or may be we r not in thr life for our mistakes or for thr we messed up our relation . but thr is a chance we can feel those days n those talks can be felt once again or u can say again and again ..!! you must be thinking how ??!! it goes like this open your mobile or the chat box in fb or any messenger and start reading it u ill feel as if u r talking to them .

today i read around 1000+ messages ...!!

those were some golden days when we had time for each other now we r in search of the dear once but its very difficult is what we say , for wt we messed up the relations are so silly .hope to patch up after reading the messages and i m doing tht now..



i m dedicating this post to all my friends whom i have lost in my past by one or the other reason .
after reading this post and also ur conversation please do something so u can get back those dear once .